{"id":54793,"date":"2024-02-05T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-02-05T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/?p=54793"},"modified":"2024-01-30T07:10:30","modified_gmt":"2024-01-30T15:10:30","slug":"when-people-pleasing-leads-you-astray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/when-people-pleasing-leads-you-astray\/","title":{"rendered":"When People-Pleasing Leads You Astray"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Contrary to what our initial reaction may be, not all people-pleasing is wrong. Consider Paul\u2019s words in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=1+Cor+10&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">1 Corinthians 10<\/a>, \u201cGive no offense to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, <em>just as I try to please everyone in everything I do,<\/em> not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=1+Cor+10%3A32-33&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">32\u201333<\/a>). But there is a danger to people-pleasing. People-pleasing can lead us away from faithful service to Christ. Even worse, people-pleasing can lead to apostasy. Consider what Paul said to the churches in Galatia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.\u201d <\/p><cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Gal+1%3A10&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Galatians 1:10<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Clearly, Paul was not willing to compromise the message of Christ crucified when others were questioning the very heart of that message. Here\u2019s a condensed exposition of this verse by the late pastor and theologian R.C. Sproul from his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/store\/product.php?productid=77411\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Expositional Commentary Series<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-people-pleasing-and-love-lines\"><strong>People-Pleasing and \u201cLove Lines\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For the most part, people are convinced by some authority they trust, and they believe something without examining the arguments in a critical way. We call these \u201clove lines.\u201d We call them this because we tend to trust people we love and admire. If they say something to us, even without proving their assertion, we nevertheless take it on faith. You\u2019ll see that the vast majority of people who are Baptist are Baptist because they grew up in a Baptist family or those who are Methodist grew up in a Methodist family. They say: \u201cThat\u2019s the way I was raised. That\u2019s how I was born and reared. It was good enough for my father. It was good enough for my grandfather. Therefore, it\u2019s good enough for me.\u201d Whatever we were taught by someone we admire, a trusted teacher or parent, becomes the final recourse of our proof.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem that this tendency produces is a failure to examine those things that we hold with great tenacity. We hold on to things without really subjecting them to critical analysis. This is what Paul was facing among the Galatians. He was astonished that they had so quickly moved from what Paul had taught them with respect to the gospel. You recall what we\u2019ve already read in the Apostle\u2019s statement in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Gal+1%3A9&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">verse 9<\/a>: \u201cIf anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>People-Pleasing and the Power of Tradition<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, the question I ask is this: How is it possible that so many of these Galatians had been seduced by the Judaizing heresy, which teaches that to be saved, one has to maintain the law of the Old Testament? How is it that after hearing the beautiful gospel of Christ, of the finished work that He has performed in His atoning death, of a death made once for all, that anybody would move away from that glorious gospel? I think the answer is love lines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can hear the discussions among the Galatians: \u201cEvery year for forty years, I\u2019ve gone to Jerusalem for Yom Kippur, for the Day of Atonement. I went through the rituals of sacrificing the bulls and the goats for my sins. Now this Apostle tells us we don\u2019t need to do that anymore? Everything has changed. Some person, Jesus, died once and for all, giving a perfect atonement. No, no. I like the tradition. I like trusting in the rituals of my faith and celebrating the Passover. Maybe Jesus thought it was nice in the upper room to change the liturgy of the Passover, but we\u2019ve been doing this Passover the same way every year for centuries. My father did it, my grandfather did it, my great-grandfather did it, and I\u2019m going to continue to do it as well.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These ceremonies were designed by God to point forward to the fulfillment of the person and work of Jesus Christ. However, once they were fulfilled in Him, the people didn\u2019t want to let them go. They wanted to rest their confidence in the tradition, in the sacred rituals and ceremonies they had performed for centuries. For them, it was not finished by Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>People-Pleasing and the Power of Popularity<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s an informal fallacy that we find constantly repeated in the world throughout the press and on TV. We call this the informal fallacy of the <em>argumentum ad populum.<\/em> This fallacy means an argument \u201cto the populace\u201d or \u201cto the people.\u201d In simple terms, it\u2019s something like this: Sixty thousand people can\u2019t be wrong. We determine truth not only by love lines but by taking a poll. You count noses. You determine the truth on the basis of the majority view.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We have a problem when truth is so often determined by polls. John Calvin made this comment: \u201cLet us boldly despise the whole world.\u201d Now, did he mean that we should hate everybody in the world? No, what he meant is that ministers of the gospel, those who are entrusted to preach the Word of God, must learn how to shut their eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Lady Justice<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We have a symbol in the U.S. Justice Department: it\u2019s Lady Justice, carrying a sword and scales. The thing that is so peculiar about Lady Justice is that she wears a blindfold. Why? She\u2019s following Calvin\u2019s sage advice in the juridical arena. Calvin was saying that justice must be blind; justice must not be distributed on the basis of people\u2019s standing or resources; rather, people are to be treated with fairness according to the law.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We know that all too often, Lady Justice peeks and checks out the polls to see who\u2019s for her and who\u2019s against her. Even the justices of the Supreme Court are extremely influenced by popular opinion. How else could you explain the Dred Scott decision? How else could you possibly explain Roe v. Wade? The error was that the most fundamental right of all, the right to life, was denied in Roe v. Wade because Lady Justice took off the blindfold and looked at the groups that were strongly and vehemently asserting their agendas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Living for the Approval of God<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When Paul addresses the crucial issue of justification by faith alone, he asks,<strong> Am I now seeking the approval of man?<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Gal+1%3A10&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v. 10<\/a>). Seeking the approval of man and going with popular wisdom rather than against it was his nature. When he was persecuting the church violently and dragging Christians to prison, he received the applause of men who were encouraging his actions until the Son of God knocked him to the ground and blinded him, saying, \u201cSaul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Acts+9%3A4&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Acts 9:4<\/a>). Paul had heard the applause and cheers of men when he was attacking Christ. Paul asked, \u201cAm I still going to count noses in Galatia to see what the popular view is there?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God?<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Gal+1%3A10&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">v. 10<\/a>). Paul adds a rhetorical question to the threat of the curse. He tells us elsewhere to try, as much as is in our power, to be at peace with all men, to try to get along with people (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/bible\/?query=Rom+12%3A18&amp;version=ESV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Rom. 12:18<\/a>). We\u2019re not supposed to go out of our way to be obnoxious, to add scandal to the gospel. There\u2019s plenty of scandal already built in to the gospel. We don\u2019t need to add to it; nor are we allowed to subtract from it in order to please men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every one of us faces this kind of pressure, this kind of choice, at one time or another, when that which is popular will receive the applause of men. However, no matter how much applause we get from man, if we don\u2019t get the approval of God, it is nothing. If you want to be a Christian, you can\u2019t be a man-pleaser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Being a people-pleaser and a servant of Christ are two incompatible options. It\u2019s either\/or. You please the Lord or you please your friends. If you have to cut every love line on this planet, get out your scissors for the sake of Jesus and for the sake of His kingdom.<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Expositional Commentary Series by R.C. Sproul<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"580\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.olivetree.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ExpositionalCommentarySeriesBlog-1024x580.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-54795\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ExpositionalCommentarySeriesBlog-1024x580.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ExpositionalCommentarySeriesBlog-300x170.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ExpositionalCommentarySeriesBlog-768x435.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/ExpositionalCommentarySeriesBlog.jpg 1170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/store\/product.php?productid=77411\">Expositional Commentary Series<\/a> features nine volumes of sermons pastor and theologian R.C. Sproul preached at St. Andrew\u2019s Chapel in Sanford, Florida. The volumes cover all four gospels, Acts, several of Paul\u2019s letters and Peter\u2019s epistles. Each of these volumes are pastoral, applicable, illustrative, and faithful expositions of Scripture. Follow the link below to our store to purchase them for use in the Olive Tree Bible App!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-16018d1d wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/www.olivetree.com\/store\/product.php?productid=77411\" style=\"background-color:#77aa3c\">EXPOSITIONAL COMMENTARY SERIES<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Contrary to what our initial reaction may be, not all people-pleasing is wrong. 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